"Like Him" by Tyler, The Creator: A Haunting Reflection on Identity and Absence

 By Haziq Asyraf 

    Tyler, The Creator's "Like Him" from Chromakopia stands out as an emotionally charged and contemplative tune. The song begins with a minimalist piano melody and gradually evolves into a layered blend of percussion and distorted guitars, reflecting Tyler's increasing emotional stress. The sound is modest but purposeful, enabling the lyrics to sink in organically. The song opens with a raw, unfiltered meditation on Tyler's likeness to his absent father, punctuated by spoken word from his mother, Bonita Smith, setting the tone for what becomes a deeply emotional trip.

    Tyler's songs examine his conflicted connection with the concept of a parent he never actually knew. He asks, "Do I look like him?" —a striking refrain that conveys both desire and uncertainty. Tyler describes his father as a "ghost," demonstrating how absence can still leave a presence, as seen in the mirror, mannerisms, and even emotions handed on. His subdued vocal approach highlights the emotive themes of identity, abandonment, and hereditary anguish. The song doesn't only convey a tale; it asks listeners to consider their own family relationships and how we inherit more than just physical characteristics.

    In the outro, Bonita accepts responsibility for Tyler's father's absence, providing an emotional twist that rewrites the story. Her apology and request for forgiveness move the responsibility from Tyler's father to herself, providing a depth of compassion and complexity. Finally, "Like Him" becomes more than just a song; it's a reflection on how we reconcile with aspects of ourselves that we don't entirely comprehend. Tyler's candour elevates his personal narrative to a generally accessible message about identity, forgiveness, and healing.