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22 May 2025

From a Safe House to a Stopover in Friendship

 

        By: Daniellia Fariesya 




There are times when people feel at home for us and that very special friend enters into our lives, coming in with the promise that they will stay there for a long time-even forever, maybe. But sometimes, the people we give our best to, end up treating us like just a temporary singer-plying-shelter: "Rumah Singgah." And when they go away, there remains emptiness, a lot of questions, and a faint heartbreak that lingers.

More Than Just a Love Song, Fabio Asher's "Rumah Singgah" is often considered a love   ballad-a song of someone being a resting place and only stopping by whenever it is just convenient. But the fact is that the lyrics go deeper than romance. They speak to anyone who has ever given all of their love for someone, including in friendship. Because betrayal does not only come from lovers. It comes from your closest friends as well. "Yang terjadi kini Ku hanya rumah persinggahanmu,Di saat kau terluka,Dan di saat semuanya reda,Kau menghilang begitu saja”

A louder betrayal is not necessarily the most painful. There are some that are the most painful and yet there is no screaming, no blatant lies. Sometimes all it is a quiet.It is that sudden distance. It is disappearance. It is watching them move on as if you never mattered."

You ask yourself, "Was I just a convenience?" The answer you that hate so much is right there. No, you were not their home. You were their stopover. Their rumah singgah. Hoping for Forever, But Left with Nothing What hurts the most is the hope. You hoped this friendship would last.

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